We’ve all probably heard the saying “April showers bring May flowers.” While it’s true, the rainy days in April will eventually lead to brightly colored blossoms that characterize spring, this statement doesn’t just relate to nature; it has practical applications too. 

Just as nature transforms its storms into beauty, the challenges we face in our own lives can lead to growth and brighter days ahead. Rather than rushing to the future, we should embrace the struggles, recognizing them as essential steps on the path to something better.

I find myself constantly looking ahead, thinking I’ll feel fulfilled once I achieve my next goal or accomplishment. However, the truth is, whenever I attain these things, it’s quickly followed by the next thing to chase, and this never-ending cycle repeats itself. 

I’m beginning to realize that true growth comes from embracing the present, even with its imperfections and flaws. The struggles we face today are what make tomorrow brighter. After all, without the stormy days, the beauty of May flowers wouldn’t exist at all.

It’s not always easy to deal with difficulties, but there are countless guiding philosophical principles that we may consider. 

Take the Japanese concept of wabi-sabi as one example. Wabi-sabi is a Japanese aesthetic principle that focuses on the beauty of imperfection and transience. This mindset encourages us to see value in the flawed and the unfinished.

Social media is a great example of this. Are the perfect moments we post really our most memorable experiences, or are the intimate behind-the-scenes moments the ones that stay with us the longest, even if they may look a little messier?

There’s beauty in what’s real, not just what’s polished and perfect. 

Another idea to consider is Nietzsche’s amor fati, which translates to “love of fate.” This phrase suggests that the good and bad parts of life are essential to finding fulfillment.

You might be struggling with something like failing an exam or dealing with a difficult breakup, but according to Nitzsche’s principle of amor fati, these challenges shape your character and lead you to who you’re meant to become. 

You may not be into philosophy, but these are practical ideas, right? After all — spoiler alert — one bad grade or college fling is not the end of the world. In fact, I challenge you to consider the fact that these experiences might lead you to something better.

Like wabi-sabi and amor fati, the Buddhist concept of dukkha follows a similar line of thinking. This idea suggests that suffering is unavoidable and that growth comes from understanding it rather than trying to avoid it.

We don’t always need to resist or run from discomfort; dukkha shows us that our struggles can lead to greater inner peace if we confront them with acceptance.

Now, even if these philosophical concepts are dizzying or uninteresting to you, there’s ultimately one point that I’m trying to make: Life’s challenges aren’t objects to be avoided but opportunities for growth. Even our struggles have value, so embrace them, learn from them and trust that they’re leading you to a better version of yourself.