It is odd that in a culture typically considered to be politically aware, conversations are carefully guided to avoid any topics that might result in a political debate. Maybe this is not the way it is in the career-world, but from my experience thus far, this is definitely the way college-aged people behave.
After all, political conversations can take a turn toward the awkward and uncomfortable side of things very quickly, and most people probably don’t want that discomfort. A lot of people, myself included, shut down and try to find a way out when conversations start to get controversial. We do this because sometimes it is easier, and much more comfortable, to pretend that opinions of a political nature do not exist and that everyone agrees. I do this, and I’m willing to bet I’m not the only one. But it’s something we should stop. Because ignoring an opportunity to discuss issues that are important is certainly the wrong approach.
Although it goes against previously taught behavior, political conversations should not be avoided. Talking to others about these topics is actually beneficial, especially when there is open-mindedness shared throughout. It is time to stop running from conflict and to embrace the discussion of opinions without the fear of stepping on someone’s toes. After all, these conversations are not uncomfortable because of a difference in opinion, but because of an inability to communicate differences respectfully.
To discuss opinions and perspectives in a constructive way, a few things must take place. First of all, it must be a genuine discussion, not an argument. This means that there needs to be open minds, mutual respect and lowered voices. Additionally, people need to approach conversations with an acknowledgment that there is a potential for their minds to change.
Too many discussions regarding politics take place with no real listening, only constant rebuttals that leave no room for the possibility of leaving with a different opinion. Quit trying to change people’s minds and be open to what can be learned from the perspective of someone else. As outlandish as it might seem, it is possible that someone else has more insight.
It is unfortunate that defensiveness and belittlement are present in most political discussions. This makes it extremely difficult to hold a discussion and usually leads to the disliking of someone else. Because there might be multiple people involved, the chance of a mature discussion taking place can be rare. After all, it takes each person to be respectful on their own side of things. Despite this, it is still important to engage in these conversations anyway.
Political discussions need to occur more frequently than they do. It is time to hold these conversations because opinions need to be challenged. Sometimes people do need to be told, respectfully, to stop borrowing their parents’ ideology and to start thinking as individuals. There are many who need to figure out why they believe what they believe and it won’t happen until someone questions their viewpoint. Talking about politics does not have to be avoided at all costs. There is so much potential for great political conversations to take place without making anyone feel uncomfortable. Instead of changing the subject, let’s change the approach.
